Honestly, I don't usually care about stuff like that but at that time in my life with my first child, in this area, I was already feeling a little overwhelmed with all that you must do with your child, and teach your child, because these are the "critical years" and I felt so much pressure to be the perfect parent and do all the right things! It made me feel like I failed to teach my child about frogs already! ha
Looking back it really makes me laugh because.......I think soooo differently now that I have learned a few things and developed my own parenting style! That tends to happen after a couple of years and once you have number two you have arrived! You stop caring what other moms etc, think and parent the way you and your hubby and God direct you to! Parenting styles take time to kick in I think, I sure don't know anyone who has it all down the minute they become a mom. (I do know several people who THINK they do but that's their own issue!)
So feeling that way........made me grow a little angry on the way home......I was thinking how dare this teacher call me out like that? How dare she expect young kids to know that answer? Doesn't she know I am PAYING 77 bucks for this class and it is hard to get my daughter ready and myself and get in the car and drive all the way to this class for this? She must not have kids because if she did she would know how hard it is to get somewhere with a toddler!
By then I thought....why in the world do I want my daughter in this class? She is learning all of these dumb songs that do not have a whole lot of substance to them. I want her to learn fun songs, but I also want her to learn songs that will cause her heart to grow in love for God. I want her to learn these bible songs now so when she is an adult they will just come back into her mind because their is a message in them to help her, there is substance!
I don't think I will ever forget that experience......because God really used it to create something wonderful! By the time I pulled into the driveway He had told me what to do. NO there aren't any classes that will teach her these songs so you need to teach her. God gave me the idea of having some friends over with young kids, and we could sing, have a story, a craft......then we would go out for lunch. We started with 13 of us total the first time. We did that three times and then learned it is much better to bring a picnic and just "picnic in the den" because I found eating out very stressful when Amanda was a toddler.......there is just something about that age and food that just do not go well in public unless I have something there to watch her why I clean up the mess she made, and all of the other moms were in the same boat so we launched "picnic in the den" and have so loved getting to know old friends better as well as the new ones that have joined us over the years! We did monthly clubs until Amelia was born! We saw many friends move away.........and new ones join us......and some grow out of bible club........it has been so rewarding. We have managed to do a few bible clubs since Amelia joined our family, but haven't been able to do a summer monthly club until this summer. Now that Amanda will not need to be picked up in the middle of the day..........we are ready to dive into our monthly clubs again.
So we passed out flyer's and sent a few emails out to friends we thought might like to come and heard from several that they would be away so I worried there wouldn't be enough interest.......but wrong I was! So then I worried we would have too many but...We had over 15 moms say no's for June.......and 9 cancel at the last minute.......and ended up with 21 kids and 10 moms, and only one no show! Plenty of kids for the space we have and not too many to be too crowded, so it worked out perfectly and we were sooo excited!
We recruited mammaw to tell the bible story for us! She has a way of teaching that even adults learn something, so I could sit and listen to her tell bible stories all day because I always learn something! My girlfriend calls it the "extras" she gives us!
We had the kids design their own bags using Noah Ark stickers and Amanda was so good about passing them out and making sure all the kids made a bag! She also made all the name tags ahead of time, she was such a great helper and really made me see some wonderful hospitality, leadership and "serving skills" emerging in her. I was so proud of her and happy to see her in action!